Mukono Municipality member of Parliament, Hon. Betty Nambooze Bakireke, has urged veteran gospel musician Betty Nakibuuka to respect her daughter Baby Gloria’s privacy.
Following her daughter’s string of celebrations, including engagement, Kukyala, and introduction, Baby Gloria’s mother has addressed the media, expressing her excitement for her daughter’s milestones.
However, netizens have criticized her actions, claiming her media rounds have put her daughter’s privacy at risk. Joining the list of critics is Hon. Betty Nambooze, who schooled Nakibuuka on how to handle the situation.
Nambooze urged Nakibuuka to respect the privacy of her daughter and her fiancé, especially during this significant period in their new chapter of marriage.
Below is Nambooze’s detailed letter.
Dear Maama Gloria,
I am writing to express concern about your recent behavior surrounding your daughter Gloria’s engagement and upcoming marriage. While it’s natural to be excited about this new chapter in her life, your actions seem to be crossing boundaries of privacy and cultural sensitivity.
As a public figure, your words and actions have an impact on your audience. However, it’s essential to respect the privacy of your daughter and her fiancé, especially during this significant period in their lives. Sharing intimate details about their relationship, marriage plans, and gifts received may be exciting for you, but it’s not necessarily appropriate for public consumption.
Moreover, your interpretation and application of Buganda culture seem inconsistent. While you initially declared that you wouldn’t respect certain cultural practices as a born-again Christian, you later erroneously attached cultural significance to the goat brought by Mr. Mbaleke to symbolize your daughter’s virginity. However, it’s worth noting that in the context of Buganda traditions, the practice of delivering a goat to signify virginity is not what you described.
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In our culture, the paternal aunt plays a significant role in verifying the bride’s virginity. On the morning after the couple’s first night together, the husband informs the aunt that the bride was found to be a virgin, and it’s the aunt who delivers a goat to celebrate this occasion. This is a private family matter, not a public declaration or celebration with neighbors. The goat is not a trophy to showcase, especially since the focus is on respecting the marriage and the individuals involved, regardless of the outcome.
Furthermore, in the context of Kwanjula, a goat is often brought as a fine for “Amawemukiraano,” which implies that the couple has had premarital relations or the bride is not a virgin. This gesture is not a celebration of virtue but rather an acknowledgment of a mistake and a sign of regret.
As a Christian, you might find guidance in the Bible on handling sensitive matters with discretion. For instance, Joseph, Mary’s husband, is described as a righteous man who chose to divorce Mary quietly after learning she was pregnant, to avoid exposing her to public shame (Matthew 1:19-25). This example highlights the importance of handling personal matters with care and respect for those involved.
It’s essential to understand and respect the cultural nuances of the Buganda traditions and the privacy of your daughter and her fiancé. You can celebrate your daughter’s happiness without compromising her privacy or distorting cultural practices for the sake of publicity.
I urge you to reflect on your actions and consider the impact they may have on your daughter, her fiancé, and your audience.
Sincerely,
Bakireke Nambooze Betty
